OVERVIEW Leonard Pitts is a columnist for the Miami Herald newspaper. He wrote that an old friend told him that 90 percent of the time his marriage makes him glad he’s alive, and the other 10 percent makes him want to beg, “Kill me now!” He said the trick is to get through the 10 percent by trusting in the 90 percent. I read about another man whose marriage had deteriorated to such a point that he started watching the videotape of his marriage ceremony in reverse so that he could see himself walking